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Judo: The Art of Gentle Strength

by Daniel Malayev - Team IJC Judo Athlete

IJC Martial Arts Blog - Judo as the Art of Gentle Strength

Judo is a martial art that teaches you how to use an opponent’s strength against them, instead of relying on force. The word “judo” means “the gentle way,” and it’s all about balance, timing, and technique. I’ve been training in judo for two years, and I’m currently a green belt. What I love about judo is that it’s not just about fighting—it’s about discipline, respect, and self-control.

As an Olympic sport, Judo is one of the most popular sports in the world.  Although it’s popularity is not evident in the States, if traveled anywhere overseas the recognition of Judo adds to excitement. Watching judo matches can be intense because they’re fast and tactical. The athletes are incredibly skilled, and seeing their techniques in action is inspiring. It reminds me that every throw or hold I learn in practice has a deeper purpose, and with enough dedication, you can achieve amazing things.

One of the most fascinating things about judo is that you don’t need to be the biggest or strongest to succeed. It’s about being smart with your movements. Instead of trying to overpower someone, you use techniques like throws, pins, and holds to gain control. For example, if someone pushes you, instead of resisting, you can use that momentum to flip them over. It’s all about using their energy to your advantage.

Training in judo helped me build confidence. Knowing that I have the ability to defend myself if necessary has made me feel more secure, but it’s also made me more respectful and considerate. I’ve learned that self-defense isn’t about proving strength or intimidating others; it’s about feeling empowered and treating others with the same respect I expect in return.

Judo has a strong emphasis on respect. You always bow before and after practice or a match to show respect for your opponent and the sport. This teaches you to be humble and to honor the effort everyone puts in. It’s not just about winning; it’s about improving yourself physically and mentally.

Judo deeply impacted my life outside of the dojo. Learning to stay calm and focused on the mat has helped me handle challenges in everyday life. I’ve learned that just like in judo, life’s obstacles don’t have to be met with force; they can often be overcome with patience, understanding, and a calm mindset. For example, instead of reacting immediately to stressful situations, I take a step back and think about the best approach—just as I would when facing an opponent.

Judo has also played a significant role in my physical and emotional development. Physically, the training has made me stronger, more flexible, and more aware of my body’s movements. The constant practice of throws, holds, and groundwork has improved my coordination, balance, and overall fitness. Emotionally, judo has taught me resilience and patience. Every training session pushes me to step out of my comfort zone, and I’ve learned to embrace failure as a part of the process. It’s helped me manage stress, stay calm under pressure, and maintain a positive mindset, knowing that growth comes through consistent effort.

Overall, judo has helped me grow both mentally and physically. It’s given me the tools to handle challenges, to respect others, and to continually improve myself. Whether I’m practicing for fun, self-improvement, or competition, judo has helped shape me into a stronger and more balanced person in all aspects of my life.